Okay, lets be honest, if you are on POF it is generally because you don't have a lot of money, and POF is free for the most part. So why are so many WOMEN expecting a man with "their shit together" in such a bad economy? If you're looking for a "one percenter," you're on the wrong website.
Here is a prime example, from a profile in my local area:
First off, the reason so many people in their 30s are "broke, no job, no car" is because we have a crappy economy. Lady, you live in a metropolitan area consistently ranked as one of the 10 poorest cities in America.
Second-- FOUR kids? Not just kids at that, "bratty ass kids!" That world doesn't have room for a man. Who wants a ready-made family? Not me.
Third, high-maintenance and want to be treated like a princess." As I already stated, it screams "gold digger."
On the up side, she's "independent." She doesn't really NEED a man. That's a relief.
I beg to differ on her opinion of herself as an "amazing" girl. But see, you women think you can write this shit, sound like a total bitch, and guys are going to eat it up because you're a thin blonde bimbo. But she got knocked up four times so apparently men find her hot enough, I guess. She's definitely not for me.
Here is the thing. Many men won't date women with kids. I don't blame them. America is a liability minded culture, and kids are a liability. To use the cliché, kids bring lots of "drama." Babby daddy drama, junior gets sick at school, and kids get attached to people way too quickly, so if you're not trying hard to be a heartless bastard, you grow an attachment to them as well. Of course, in the back of everyone's mind is the false allegation thing, and no one wants that kind of drama. Kid free is the way to be. It sounds mean but it is true.
Good lucking finding a rich man, princess. Your handsome prince isn't on POF.
No worries, I have a house here and in Italy (Dolce Vita), a good and steady job, a convertible, plenty of spending money, and decent looks. I still find it amazing how picky women are on that site. I wonder whether they read the fine print, because if they did, they would grab me in a heartbeat. In fact, one cute gal did go on two dates with me and she liked my appearance. However, on the first, she surprisingly brought her girlfriend along. I refused to pay but gave her the benefit of the doubt. On the second date, she complained about me wearing a suit jacket and looking too formal, all this while she was chewing gum. Today she is constantly on line. Single lady, I hope you find your home in Rome someday. Living at some crappy housing complex called Venetian Villas does not cut it!
ReplyDeleteSorry it took so long to publish this. I took a two month sabbatical. Yes, it is a shame American woman are picky. If you ever come back to this blog, tell me how Italian ladies are. I'm drowning here.
ReplyDeleteItalian women can't be "all that", either. If sites like Interpals are an indication, they come across just like Americans. If I wanted a snarky bitch who watches Glee and likes to travel (I guess Italy doesn't have their own version of the TSA), then I could just find snarky locals...I deleted that account as soon as my seventh day come around.
ReplyDeleteI would imagine any place where money is worshipped will have the same problem. The US has done a fairly good job of convincing the world we are wealthier than we really are. Most of us live paycheck to paycheck. Many women in particular buy into the lie of the "American Dream." Oh, and we don't interact much in person these days, which makes meeting people harder. We treat everything like a TSA screening these days.
ReplyDeleteGolddiggers should of gone on sugardaddy websites. Pof is not the place for it.
ReplyDeleteIf they expect a man with money, why go to a site that is free? Obviously, poor folks can't afford monthly memberships for other websites.
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